It's not about you.

Have you ever been in the situation when you see your friends crying?

Have you ever seen anything scarier?

Personally, I have  had my fair share with horror movies and spooks, but I haven't seen anything that worried me more, than watching my friend cry.

Maybe you knew she was already having a bad day, you heard some rumors about her leaving class crying. You saw her tweets about all her mixed emotions.

But at the end of the day when you finally see her, you know all the rumors were true.

And the thing you wouldn't expect it that you don't care what happened. You don't care who did what to her. You just want to make her smile.

The worst part?

She avoids you.

She avoids any kind of contact with you, and you know she is avoiding any sort of help.

You want to be the good person and help her, but you can't help but feel extremely mad at her. Why won't she let me help her? Why is she being such a child about this?

You may never realize this, but you have no right to make those sorts of accusations.

You don't know that entire story. Maybe if you did you would understand, but you might also hear the story and think "Oh please, you are being such a dramatic bitch. get over yourself."

After going through what I went through with Sally's death I consider things that may be a big deal to some people very small, and unimportant. Surgeries, break ups, failing classes all seemed very small and stupid to me.

But it's not about me it's about your friend who is crying her eyes out.

Put your feelings aside for once, and go help her. She needs it.