Girl talk is a necessity.
You may think I am exaggerating but I promise you I'm not, and you know it.
Girls need to talk to other girls about anything and everything.
We need to vent about our grades, our parents, how our favorite character was taken off of the TV shows, and of course boys.
Now as I was having girl talk today over some fro-yo we went from our topic on whipped cream, to whipped boys, and our different opinions on them.
Personally I can see the benefits in having a boyfriend who is "whipped," he would literally do anything for you, and while that's really sweet, my friend Ana did point out that there's no challenge to a whipped boyfriend.
Which is really half the fun of having the boyfriend is the chase and trying to get him to like you, and having an excuse to act super flirtatious and mysterious at the same time.
Girls really appreciate those guys who will carry a torch for them, but at the same time we don't know how to react to those boys. We aren't use to people giving us so much attention, especially boys.
So we do what every girl does at one point in there life.
We friend zone the poor schmuck.
WE honestly feel awful about it, but we can't put too much thought into.
And men, if you are ever friend zoned you shouldn't complain about it, because we had two options in the matter- Friend zone you, or we could tell you to F*** off, and not talk to us.
It hurts us to tell you to F*** off, but we know how much it hurts you to be in the friend zone, my advice is if you think it's better to be in the friend zone than no zone, then stay and don't complain.
It's truly fear of the unknown, we don't know how to react to someone having such strong emotion about us like that.
So yes Diamonds, a boyfriend who will do anything for you is so much fun, and you know he really cares for you, but if there was no real fight to get him, then I guess you kind of miss out on your own passionate love story. I just suggest you to follow your heart, and to find the right guy that fulfills all your dreams, and let him be your boyfriend.
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