Saturday, November 3, 2012

Table For One Please

Now, honestly, some people make a really big deal about the idea of being single, but honestly it's not that big of a deal.

"forever alone" has got to be one of the funniest memes ever, I love seeing how unhappy that little face is every time the picture above him is a couple holding hands. I find it hilarious, and because I can relate to it in a non-"omg my life is so sad and single" way.

Honestly I would rather be single than be that girl who has dated at least 56 boys because she is terrified of being alone for one Friday night. Everyone knows a girl like that. If you don't know a girl like that- it's you.

Anyways I'd rather be single than be that girl, simply because being single proves that I have respect for myself in choosing what I want. I'm not going to randomly make-out with any boy I see! Unless it's just one of those nights, we all have them.

Anyways when did being single all of a sudden become the most important thing in a teenage girls/boys life? I'm not saying I know what it should be, I'm just saying I know what it shouldn't be.

First off, an actual relationship is hard work. You have to sacrifice a lot of things, like the hours and hours you spend on Tumblr, but actually it's a lot more than that. You have to figure out how to balance your friends and your relationship, I never ever want to be the girl who becomes so preoccupied with her boyfriend that she doesn't see her friends anymore.

Now, sure sometimes it's actually kind of fun to sit around with a chick-flick on while eating ice-cream with your Friends, and complain about how you are all single. Let it all out! Plus it makes an awesome bonding moment that you get to laugh about forever, I suggest to do it on Valentines day, and every other Tuesday.

OK, so point is next time some bitch goes on and on about how amazing her boyfriend is, please ignore it and think to yourself "I am a diamond I think very highly of myself unlike this girl, who is simply going on and on about her boyfriend because he is actually a very terrible boyfriend and since their relationship isn't full enough she felt the need to brag to me about it, because that's how worthless she is. I, on the other hand, am going to wait for someone who is perfect, someone who I will not have to brag about."

Trust me Diamonds, hang in there because they'll come around.

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