Heartbreaks and Aches

"A heart break is a necessity when it come to experiences in life."

This is quote I jokingly said to my friend Maggie on the bus this morning.

Truth be told, I meant it.

I have experienced heartbreak before, it's not fun, you don't walk away from it right after saying "Gee I'm so happy I just spent that entire weekend eating chocolate ice cream while watching Nicholas Sparks films, and listening to my mix tape of Adele and Taylor Swift!" No.

A heartbreak doesn't heal over one weekend. I don't care who you are or what your relationship was like, there is still always emotion left behind. I don't care if you think you are the most amazing person in the world, you don't get over a boy in a day. And guys, if the girl ever meant something to you, you won't get over her in a day either.

Especially if you had sex with them. Scientist have proven that a chemical in a woman's brain in released when she has sex, causing her to attach to that person. Personally? I think this was a lame excused drawn up by male scientist just to show how crazy women are. Which I'm fine with, good job dickheads, doesn't mean we are going to stop doing it.

Anyways, back to my friend Maggie, today while we were riding home on the bus she told me "I figured out a solution to that whole heart-break-thing: Never fall in love in the first place!"

Now I know she was totally kidding because Maggie doesn't seem like the type to give up on love, but she brings up a good point.

Is the heartbreak, and sorrowful emotion you deal with after a relationship even worth it?

My opinion? Yes.

Yes, you'll go through every stage of grief, you'll consume twice your weight in ice cream, and you'll probably watch so many episodes of One Tree Hill that you'll forget your own name, but I promise you'll walk away a better person.

Diamonds a heart break is good every now and then if you can move on from it.